Kinds of Lies

 

I won’t dispute the fact that a lie will always be a lie no matter how it’s told or who is telling it and the reason is being told but when we look deeper, access or check properly  “lies” are distinctively divided into three kinds. No doubt this ancient and famous act called “Lie” is practiced by almost all human races, ages, genders, sizes and figures with exception for the littles babies and the mute. To be candid, we can always try to reduce lies to its minimal but we can’t help but tell it consciously or unconsciously at times to safe matters. Bellow I will shed more lights on kinds of lies…

 

•       Lies based on Respect: Just like title goes, this kind of lie is told based on the respect one has for the person he or she is telling the lies to. Relationship is a very vital part in our own human social system, so this lies are told to protect relationships and integrity. If people were to be charged for telling this kind of lies most Husbands and Wives, Boyfriends and Girlfriends, Business associates would have paid heavily because these categories of people tells this kind of lies without repentance.

 

•      Deceptive Lies:   No doubt this kind of lie are told mainly because of selfish interest, it is told not because you respect the person you are telling the lie to but because that person is holding an important thing that is of interest to you. They are most times desperate and desperate times calls for desperate measures and that measure is Deception, now let’s categories of people that hopelessly guilty of this kind of lies are the Politicians, Casanovas, Gold diggers, Swindlers and Con artist.

 

 

•       Pranks:   This a kind of lie or deception practiced because of entertainment or laughter, it is an healthy kind of lie but some most times takes it to the extreme. A dose of this kind of lie or deception is good for our daily social activities in our homes, work , schools, parties   and place of worship but WARNING “ Prank responsibly”.

 

5 wrong moves guys makes online that that turns off ladies

Ladies all around the world be it Africa, Asia and America are almost the same, they share very similar feature not letting their guard off most especially when you are a stranger. The internet today is fast changing that every day, you could start with a word as short as “Hi” and end up hitting and keeping the price. But a lot of dudes go about this the wrong ways; these are 5 wrong moves guys makes online that that turns off ladies.

1. Unattractive DP: Images speaks more than a thousand words, it would speak for you and save you the energy of describing your physical features. You will find most dude taking pictures in front of a dirty wall or a shabby looking background with a funny pose and then upload it as their display pictures on their social media platforms. You will find some taking pictures with a blurry camera with a funny pose like bending beside flowers and shrubs like in the 60s. Dude step up your game this is the 21^st century take decent with a mix of some raunchy good quality pictures, it goes a long way to give the ladies of what you would taste like.

2. Asking too much and dumb questions: This is a huge turn off for the ladies and many guys are guilty of this, they want to know everything about a lady the very first minute they start conversing and they most time get short of words and start asking dumb questions like “Are you a Christian or Muslim ? What kind of phone are you using ? Do you have light (power) blabla ? Even if you want to ask questions be creative about it, ask it in a way she will start to pour out her mind to you by that way you will discover her area of interest instead of directly asking her what her area of interest is. And finally when she finally start asking you questions, your jackpot is around the corner. Below is a brief example of what I mean

Wrong move

Ade: Hello Dear

Chika: Hi

Ade: How are you?

Chika: Fyn

Ade: How was your night?

Chika: Fyn ooo (this time the babe start losing interest, might even ignore)

Ade: You are so sexy and hot

Chika: ???

Good move

Ade: Hello

Chika: Hi

Ade: How are you doing today?

Chika: Fyn

Ade: Hope you had a great night

Chika: Yes I did and you?

Ade: My night was splendid; I’m Ade from Lagos and you?

3. Being uninteresting or Boring: This is where your explorative and creative skills is needed, try to explore her needs and desires and amplify it without making it look obvious. For example her desire is bread and butter; present those bread and butter as a hot delicious sandwich. Play with her imaginations, leave her with wild imaginations after each chat, and cleverly show off your knowledge most especially in the area of her interest. Most ladies admires intelligent guys, you don’t have to be a nerd to be intelligent, step up that sexiness and handsomeness with something in your brains. Don’t leave reading and learning alone to the nerds.

4. Stalking: After hitting a good start up chats, or maybe gaining little attention from the lady most guys’ gets overzealous and become the ladies monitoring spirit. They start looking up for the lady online almost every minute, gosh! Give it a break! Ladies needs some amount of space , in fact make them believe you are busy even if you are not, and not the other way around your last time on Whatsapp ,BBM,Facebook 2secs ago all day. Dudes give it a break, apply the law of demand and supply, make them miss you, this would prompt them to start looking for you, then your value increases.

5. Trying too hard to impress: At this point most guys allow the attention they are getting from their crush to get over there head, by making a fool of themselves, letting out way too much information that might in a way turn off the lady’s surmounting emotions Dude be a gentleman you be more of the reader than the typist

Whew! I hope I have been able to be of help to you my delectable readers, please always try to check back for some more informative and exciting piece from my humble self HerexG wink!

Beware of Dogs in your Office

 

The world is filled with so many wicked and desperate people hovering about as scents, friends and associates; you will find the very desperate ones mostly in our homes and offices. I will lay more emphasis on taking strict safety precautions in our offices or place of work, in doing so I will share real life experiences, so I crave your indulgence to read and learn.

A few months ago one of our close family friends was employed as a clerk in one of Nigerians prestigious federal universities, after getting the employment; he immediately applied for admission to pursue his Bachelor’s Degree in the same school he is working. He was so hardworking, humble and loyal to the university rector that he found favor in the sight of him both as a staff and student. Immediately after graduation this young man was promoted as the Liberian of the university, many of coworkers was congratulating him little did he know that these same people would later be his doom?  One faithful day this young man came to his office with his food park from home, he shares the same office with other junior staffs. That very day was on a Friday, he was supposed to go pick up his son who attends the university’s primary school which is not far from his office.  As he was leaving his office, he kept his food park right inside his office drawer without locking it. Shortly after, he came back with his son and right immediately he fetched the food from the drawer and he and his son ate the food together. Few minutes’ later father and son started bleeding, coughing out blood while eating, they were both rushed to the hospital. Unfortunately the father died, but the boy survived, it was later found that the food that they were eating was poisoned. This is the height of wickedness and evil manipulation in the office; none of his immediate coworkers sharing the same office attended his funeral.

So one has to be very careful in dealing with people even in the office or place of work, never leave your consumables or private properties open where anyone could reach it. If you must leave your office, leave with your food (consumables) or safely lock it, the world we live in today is filled with wicked and desperate and mean people.